Sample edition from May 2020
Hello and Howdy,
Well, Gung hay fat choy!!! Happy Lunar New Year!
Gung hay fat choy is how Cantonese speakers wish you a happy new year—literally “wishing you great happiness and prosperity.” And this is my wish to you in this new year of the Metal Rat.
The Chinese Year of the Metal Rat began January 25th.
I have read that this means it’s a year of using our creativity to create New Beginnings. Last year, the Pig rooted around the earth and brought many things to the surface from where they had been long hidden. Now, the White Metal Rat will begin cleaning everything up and putting things into right positions.
From now on we have to hold on to our clear vision no matter what happens in the dying world of duality. The bumpy ride will continue in the old paradigm. The weather will continue to be extreme yet we can work with all of it because as I have said before, we are off on a whole new decade of extreme change. We will have the courage to see it through!
I am so glad you are with me on this journey. Thank you for being here! It sure is an exciting adventure!
Blind Trust ~ Something we need or … not?
In moving through, over and under these incoming energies, I want to take a look at how we start lifting that veil of the illusion of the duality reality. One of those first steps may be looking at what is called “Blind Trust.” Do we blindly trust? Do we want to?
It seems to me it’s as natural as breathing for humans to wish to trust. It is harder for some than others; it certainly has been a long road for me to learn to trust others. I felt abandoned as a child and that abandonment experience took years of inner work to overcome. From what I understand from marriage and family counselors, many kids have felt abandoned for a wide variety of reasons. So trust may be an issue for many of us.
My friend Cristina Smith has said many times over the years a truth that helps as we learn about trust: “You can trust people to be themselves.” Nothing more, nothing less, good, eh? I like it!
What I want to share is a perspective of the illusion of Blind Trust. I think this is an important subject as I see many folks who are new on the evolutionary or spiritual path, or those who have not yet tapped into trusting their Spirit, their intuition, their gut … looking for answers outside of themselves. Psychic readings, card readings, astrological readings, as well as online courses and workshops, all of these are absolutely wonderful to support our efforts of personal and evolutionary development. And they are certainly great for receiving information from our Spirit, our guides and angels. However, it is important to cross check the information with our inner knowingness.
So, what is Blind Trust? Well, it really is what it says. Blindly trusting another or something without checking out whether or not it resonates with our own internal truth. Now being able to check in with our own internal truth will make perfect sense to those who have been on the evolutionary or spiritual path for a while. Especially those who have done a lot of inner work. Yet, if we are new to the process of doing that inner work, we are just now beginning to learn what our own internal truth truly is. So, it may take a little practice.
Many of us have never even considered this before. As a signpost, many of life’s dramas with family, relationships, bosses, coworkers, colleagues, personal guides or gurus, others, may come from a karmic perspective. With these folks, we do not, generally, check in with ourselves to verify the resonance of their influence or direction on what they are doing to, with or for us. So often we allow mothers, fathers, sisters, brothers, pastors, priests, gurus, friends, and others to influence us through our Blind Trust, thinking these folks always have our best interests at heart. Yet in truth and fact, in some cases, our blind trust may be misplaced.
This is what many call the human dance. Consider that the human dance is based on vibration. We really resonate with the truth that matches our energetic vibration. Sometimes energies come to dance with us and we are in complete resonance. Sometimes not. Sometimes those energies come to dance with the karma only and we can feel the resistance in our bodies. They do not resonate with us at all. And because of who is dancing with us, our mom, dad, boss, priest, pastor, spouse, child, friend … we are unable to express our real feelings or we blindly trust what they are conveying to us, making us wrong.
When this karma chain is released, which is what we do through our inner work, these dramas, these people, these situations, leave or become inconsequential or have no further influence on us, When this happens, we are able to transcend the emotionality of whatever is attempted to draw us in.
We have the ability to realize that these karmic vibrations can misguide us or block our growth, so it is key to not blindly rely on the truth of another. It is our truth, our Self, our Soul to rely upon to truly evolve. Others can share their experiences and ideas and processes and then we can check them against our inner compass to see if they point us to something we resonate with. If not, we thank them and move on.
The best example of Blind Trust is the Teacher-Student Guru-Disciple relationship. The student, the disciple, generally expects that the teacher or guru will do the work for them. There are many stories of students-disciples coming to the teacher-guru and saying “make me wise,” “make me compassionate.” Or they expect the teacher-guru to have all the answers. What happens is the student-disciple loses touch with their own truth because they adopt the teacher-guru’s truth as their own.
And so, I’m sharing this as a reminder that we have truly moved on from the teacher-student/ guru-disciple relationship. We are our own teacher now. We have moved and grown and are beginning to realize that trusting anything or anyone outside ourselves, without an internal check, can pull us off our personal journey that we purposefully set for ourselves.
This is not to say we can’t be influenced by folks that do resonate with our inner truth. I am and do that all the time. The important thing is that we check in and verify this within ourselves so that we can remain true to our journey home. We have all graduated from student-disciple. It is time to acknowledge it and give up the illusion of Blind Trust – that someone or something knows better for you than you yourself. Recognize that as we continue to evolve, grow and change that we are becoming more and more our true self, birthing the New Reality along the way. Awakening more and more to our life’s purpose and what it is we wish to accomplish in this lifetime.
The Forces at Play in the Universe
Solara, in her Surf Report for the Year of 2020, reports out that we have reached the end of what she calls our Detour into Duality and that are now reestablishing our Original Evolutionary Blueprint. I loved it and I hope you feel it too! Here is a portion of her information:
“Back before the Beginning of Time, when we were perfectly aligned with our Original Evolutionary Blueprint, we were ready and eager to go forward into the Great Unknown. We knew that the purpose of our journey was to anchor the eternal, Timeless True Worlds into the deepest realms of density. What we didn’t know then was that our journey was about to make a totally unexpected twist. Instead of continuing forward on a direct path, suddenly No-Time was broken up into tiny, artificial segments and Time began….
Although on a vaster scale, Time doesn’t really exist, this thrust us onto an unexpected detour in which most of our memories of our True Origins were erased. This detour plunged us into the illusory world of the Template of Duality where everything is perceived backwards as separate from the ONE. What we experienced is now referred to as the Descent into Matter. Duality was superimposed over Timelessness and pinned into position by the Three Stars in the Belt of Orion ~ the EL•AN•RA.
Ever since then, we have been traveling through a prolonged Distortion Band within the extremely unreal, and increasingly surreal, Template of Duality. We were immersed so deeply in duality that we forgot that other, vaster and truer realities existed. To fill up the void, we created numerous religions and hierarchies ~ all of which belong to the Template of Duality. We forgot that most of our beings reside in the eternal Timeless True Worlds. We forgot that we come from the Stars. We were on this detour through duality for so long that we started believing that duality was real. And once this happened, our misguided belief in duality became duality’s source of nourishment, making it appear even more real.
Finally, we began our long journey of reawakening and started remembering who we really are. We realized that there are infinitely vaster realities beyond the illusory world of duality. As more and more of us awakened, we began pulling the threads of our beings out of the Tapestry of Duality until duality became so weakened that it began to unravel. The old systems started to collapse until finally, great chunks of the seemingly solid foundations that had long held duality into position began to crumble.
We are now in what is known as the Final Days of Duality. This is when the forces of duality are desperately fighting to survive as our predominant reality. They are doing their utmost to maintain control by trying to pull us back into duality through fear and manipulation. Outer events all over the world are reaching a crescendo of accelerating chaos. Most of the things that we thought or were taught were real are now being revealed as false. Our very belief systems are falling asunder and turning inside out as they are replaced by Greater Truths. The world of duality is reaching its appointed conclusion.
Throughout 2019, a small, dedicated group of us made a series of eleven EL•AN•RA Ceremonies in Peru at the Three Sacred Lakes which correspond with the Three Stars in the Belt of Orion. The purpose of these unprecedented ceremonies was to dissolve the pins which had long held duality into position. These eleven ceremonies were performed on the level of pure, true energy. They had never been done before and will never be done again. Since the completion of the EL•AN•RA Ceremonies last October, there is nothing to hold duality into position ~ except for our lingering belief that it is real.”
To read the entire 2020 Surf Report, simply go to Solara’s site HERE and subscribe.
My Modern Day Oracle Video ~ Courage
The next video in my Modern Day Oracle™ Video Teaching Series is the 12th in the series so far, and marks one full year of videos! I hope you’ve been enjoying them.
This month’s video is all about Courage.
It is time to have the courage to walk our own path, the courage to discover and express who we really are, the courage to face our fears and do what needs to be done and the courage to hold deep within our hearts that All Is Well!
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I wish you an amazing month of February the start of this Year of the Metal Rat!!!
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